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September 25, 2008
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Love, job not going well after move |
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Q: Dear Stephanie, I am a firm believer in Feng Shui and have read almost all of your books and have applied many of the principles you suggest. Thank you for being such a wonderful person.
(You’re welcome!)
I recently moved to London from Athens, Greece. Back home, I was living with my parents and I had made all necessary adjustments to my room to activate my love life, career and helpful people section. I met someone special who lives in London, and after a year of a long distance relationship, I moved to London to be with him. I lived with him for a few months, but since moving here things have not gone well. I have an unsatisfying temporary job, and my relationship hcollapsed a few weeks ago. I am absolutely heartbroken at this, and have moved in with my sister (who also lives London), but her space is tiny, and there is nowhere here that I can call “mine” in order to apply feng shui to my situation.
I strongly believe in feng shui and I know that once I have my own space again, things will start to improve in all aspects of my life as I will be able to apply the feng shui principles again. However, at this point, I am unable to practice feng shui.
I would really appreciate it if you could advise me what I can do in terms of feng shui to start coping with my break up and generally getting my life back on track. I am looking for a permanent job but I know I have to be patient with that. Dare I hope to get back together with the man I love?
A: I’m glad to hear that feng shui helped you meet someone appealing, and truly sorry to hear that the move to London is not working out as you had hoped. Any big move like that takes courage.
As for rebuilding something with the man you love, well, I’m a huge fan of hope, but I’m not much in favor of restricting the goal of relationship happiness to getting back together with an ex. I talk about that in more detail here.
As I mentioned in another post here, when you are in temporary borrowed quarters feng shui really isn’t available. I do encourage your intention to find a place of your own so you can apply feng shui again, but in the meantime the law of attraction/art of allowing is more useful.
It’s possible that, on your ex’s part, a long-distance relationship was enticing in ways that a day-to-day involvement was not. It’s also possible, since neither work, love, or housing has worked out well for you so far, that London is simply not supportive of your good fortune, as much as you may feel excited and happy to be there.
As you probably know if you’ve been reading my stuff for a while, I’m a follower of western astrology, and have consulted with astrological advisors on most of the key turning points in my adult life. That includes: moving to Hawaii from New York City; picking a good date and time to get married (which led to a magical sunrise ceremony when we were advised to tie the knot at 5:48 am!); and choosing an auspicious day and time to incorporate the internet marketing side of our business.
We also consulted with a “relocation” astrologer when we felt the time had come to leave Maui, so we would be sure to move to a location where we could thrive and be happy. As it turned out, the expert we consulted advised that simply moving from Maui to the Big Island would create enough significant changes in our ‘relocated” charts to be worth doing. Plus, we’d get to stay in Hawaii, which we love. So here we are in Hilo now, and so far so good.
The reason I bring all this up is that it may be that London is simply not a good place for you to find career or romantic happiness. Or perhaps you are simply going through an astrological “rough patch” (which does happen) and things will turn around for you in that location within a few months or so. Good advice does not come cheap (except right here, of course!), but if you can scrape together the funds I highly recommend a consultation with relocation expert Julian Lee. You can contact him (and learn more about his services) here.Labels: astrology, Feng Shui Q+A, relationships
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9/25/2008 03:20:00 PM
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