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September 09, 2008
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Roommate's Bad Love Vibe |
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Q: My roommate’s bedroom is in the love and relationship corner of my house. In addition, she has a very negative attitude towards relationships and is very outspoken on the matter. Aside from enhancing the relationship areas of other rooms, is there anything I can do to compensate for the negative energy and loss of control over that portion of my house?
A: I was going to say “no -- that part of the house is her space, so it’s not yours to control. Let it go and do what you can to ignore her.”
Then I had the idea that you could take a floorplan for your house/apartment, and pretty it up with a bunch of cute, playful “love-type” stickers – hearts, cupids, roses, kissy lips, and stuff like that. Put these stickers all over the part of the floorplan that represents your roommate’s space. Write “love is wonderful” and “love = happiness” or stuff like that in the margins and over the rest of the floor plan. Use a pink or red glitter pen if you can find one, and draw some more hearts while you’re at it. Make this silly and have fun!
Keep your stickered floorplan someplace in the relationship corner of your bedroom (out of sight is fine). Imagine that all this goofball happiness is counteracting your roommate’s bad love vibe. Next time her doom-and-gloom attitude towards romance grates on you, retreat to your room, pull out your “love plan” and have a secret chuckle that she’s gonna be happy in spite of herself. Visualize that she meets someone wonderful, falls madly in love, and moves out, making space for a much better house-partner for you. Be so happy for both of you!
In the meantime, let her be as miserable as she wants to be but claim your right not to have to listen to her bitch and moan about how awful relationships/men/women/whatever are. There’s no rule that says you have to participate in her negative vibe by listening to it.
Wishing you only good love – and roommate – experiences,
Stephanie R.Labels: Feng Shui Q+A, relationships
posted by Stephanie R. #
9/09/2008 12:03:00 PM
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