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September 16, 2008
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Q: Do you have any advice for me and my husband in regards to finances? We do not work well together on money tasks and the bills pile up and no one wants to deal with any of it because it is such a negative experience.
A: My best guess, based on very limited info, is that some prosperity consciousness study/training is more in order for you at this point than specific feng shui strategies. Without that (which will help you transform your expectations and attitude towards financial chores) any feng shui tactics you might use are not likely to be effective.
If "prosperity consciousness" is a new concept to you, AllAboutProsperity.com is a useful place to start. Learning to let go of those negative expectations will certainly help.
Marital discord about financial matters -- lack of defined responsibility for who does what, conflicting priorities, different spending/saving habits, etc. -- is extremely common. Money stuff pushes all of our buttons better than just about anything else. I suspect you might get more help from someone like Suze Orman, who addresses such issues in her books and columns, than by looking to feng shui for an answer.
I will say that if you've noticed the discord only happens when you discuss finances in a certain area of the home (in the dining room, for example), and that you also bicker about other issues in that space, then there may be feng shui factors involved. You should look for and correct or avoid any sources of sha chi in that room and see if you can talk about your finances more amicably in another area of the home.
If finances in general are an issue--in a broader sense than just dealing with personal/family finance tasks--then certainly you can look around for feng shui factors. But that's far too broad a topic to be addressed here.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but feng shui is only one of many "life tools" available to us: don't reach for the hammer when what you need is a screwdriver.
Hope this helps in some way,
Stephanie R.
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The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: Feng Shui Q+A, money, prosperity
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9/16/2008 11:08:00 AM
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