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September 29, 2008
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C-Shaped Apartment Layout |
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Q: Dear Stephanie, I came across your site and was delighted to find a simple yet easy to use Feng Shui. I then bought your ebook and find it very down to earth and useful for me. However since we've moved to a new flat, with an irregular C shape, I cannot make up my mind on how to position the ba gua.
The front door of our flat is in the top side of the "C", so if I align the ba gua with the front door I will only cover the top section of the C (which contains the hall, kitchen and living room) but it leaves out the rest of the flat (2 bedrooms, a corridor, a toilet, and a bathroom).
 I hope you can help cleari my confusion on how to position the ba gua, because I really want to decorate our new flat according to Feng Shui. One of my goals is to have a baby. In addition to activating the dui area of our bedroom, I would like to do something in the tai chi area as well, but am not sure how to do that because I’m not sure where that is.
A: Although I greatly prefer to use the modern “doorway” approach to the ba gua (as detailed here), it does get trickier the farther a layout strays from the tidy rectangular structures for which the modern ba gua works best. There are three ways to approach an odd-shaped layout like this:
1) Toss out the doorway ba gua and use the compass directions instead. 2) Apply the ba gua to that part of the home that lies “ahead” of the doorway as you enter (that would be just the top section of your "C"). Yes, that does leave a big area of the home “outside” the ba gua. You can see those areas as a kind of extension of the Knowledge, Career, and Helpful Friends areas, but it is literally quite a stretch to do so. 3) Don’t worry about trying to contort the ba gua sufficiently to get it stretched over your home, and focus instead on the ba guas for each room in the apartment.
If you’re wondering what I’d do, pick option 3.
When dealing with very irregular shapes such as this one, it’s a good idea to set the ba gua aside (at least temporarily) and take a look at the shape as a whole. You’ve already done that by describing it as a “C” shape, which it is.
Activating the tai chi is going to be difficult, because you don’t have one. It’s in that big empty space in the middle of your C layout, regardless of what you decide to do with the rest of the ba gua. The tai chi is the center, and this apartment doesn’t have a physical one (unless you are on the ground floor and have exclusive use of a garden or courtyard in that area, which is probably not the case). You can’t do anything about that. It is what it is. You do, of course, still have a tai chi for each of the rooms in the homes, and you can if you like designate one particular space (such as the living room) as the emotional center of the home even though the physical center is missing.
The best advice I can give you is resist the temptation to view this layout as a problem. Yes, it’s unusual. Yes, it does make working with the ba gua a bit of a challenge. But why not decide that this unique and unusual home is the perfect place for you to conceive (and birth, and raise) a child? Hey, look at that: conceive and child both start with the letter “C”. What a happy coincidence… I think we could even call that a synchronicity.
I suggest that you get a nice big piece of poster board, and in great big letters in the middle of it, put the phrase “C is for CHILD!” Surround that phrase with pictures of mothers and babies. Or, if you make the letters really big, you could make each letter a mini-collage of pictures of pregnant women and of mamas (and daddies) and their happy, healthy, charming children.
Frame your collage and put it either in the room that will be the baby’s (if you’ve got one), or on the wall wherever the baby’s crib/bassinet will go if bambino will be sharing your bedroom for a while. Spend a few minutes each day looking at your imagery (first thing in the morning or last thing at night are the best times) and feel how wonderful it will be when you are holding your child in your arms in your C-shaped apartment.
Although I like having a physical collage hanging on a wall somewhere in the home, I've recently discovered a new technology which you may enjoy. It's called MIND MOVIES (click on the banner on the right at the top of this page for details: it's a software package that makes it really quick and easy to create an inspiration slideshow of any words and imagery that addresses your dreams and desires). My husband and I have already made 3 Mind Movies (I'll post a link to a sample in the upcoming email newsletter) and are having so much fun with it. I think a Mind Move would be a phenomenal asset to you in your quest to have a baby, so if you make one be sure to let me know how it works out!
Wishing you a joyful motherhood, and much happiness in your new home, Stephanie R.Labels: ba gua, children, Feng Shui Q+A
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9/29/2008 12:50:00 PM
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Q. Our master bathroom is on the second floor above the kitchen, and our sink is directly above the stove. Is that a problem? Is it “fixed” because I have a microwave and a wood cabinet above the stove and other wood cabinets that cover the complete length of the kitchen?
A: Yes, it’s a problem (water-fire conflict, especially since water is overhead and likes to run downhill). Fortunately, having the sink above the stove is less serious a problem than when the toilet is directly above the stove.
And no, your wooden cabinets are not fixing this. The cabinets do create a bit of a buffer, which is better than nothing, but they don’t correct the problem. Just because wooden furniture is made out of wood, that doesn't mean it represents the wood element. I know some people say it does, but I strongly disagree on that point. For one thing, any kind of furniture made from wood has no living wood chi left in it, and when we want to add "wood-type cures" to a space what we're looking for is that natural vitality of plants and tress. Keep in mind, too, that wooden kitchen cabinets are brown and rectangular which means they have “earth-type” color and shape.
When a bathroom is in a tricky position, such as over the kitchen , the recommended remedies are to: 1) Hang a faceted crystal ball in the center of the kitchen 2) In the bathroom, place a three- or six-inch round mirror on the ceiling directly above the toilet to visually reverse the downward flow of water (use double-sided tape to hold the mirror in place) 3) Place earth-type objects in the corners of the bathroom to stabilize the energy 4) Add an image such as a bird or tree to the downstairs area below the bathroom to help lift the energy there. For example, perhaps you can file a decorative tile with a bird or tree motif that could hang on the wall between the stove-top and the cabinet.
Thank you for your advice. I’ve enjoyed your books and web sites very much.
You’re very welcome, it’s my pleasure to help, Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it will be several days (often longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: bathroom, Feng Shui Q+A, Kitchens
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9/29/2008 12:24:00 PM
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Angled Front Door |
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Q. Our front door is on an angle at the left corner of the house. Where do we place the bagua: at the angled front door entrance or at the front path step that leads to the porch?
A: The ba gua is always determined by the door, not a path, step, or porch. But when the entry is on a corner angle, you also have to look at what side of the house is the “front.” Unless you are on a corner lot (as discussed here), that’s probably fairly obvious based on the relationship between the house and your street. You might find my discussion of a single room with angled entry, here, helpful as well.
Q (con’td): As you enter our front door and walk into a large entry hall, on the immediate right is our dining room. The dining room has 3 large arched entrances with one into the kitchen and the stove is clearly visible as you come in. I believe the kitchen view of the stove from the front entrance is a problem. Is that correct?
A: Not if the kitchen and stove are off to the right when you come in. A stove visible from the front door is only a problem if it’s directly ahead of you when you step through the door, and if you stand with your back to that door when cooking. Because your door is on an angle, you don’t have that layout. If you want to remedy this anyway, a faceted crystal in the kitchen archway will interrrupt the flow of chi between door and stove.
Hope that clears things up, Stephanie R.Labels: ba gua, Feng Shui Q+A, Kitchens
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9/29/2008 12:11:00 PM
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Plumbing in the Wealth Corner |
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Q: My washer & dryer are in a closet in the wealth corner of the first floor of my house. I heard that plumbing in the wealth corner is not good. Do you agree? If so, is there a cure for this?
A: Please read the article here: (Plumbing “remedies” apply to laundry room, too.) And the blog post here:
Everyone, this is why I respectfully request that you do your feng shui homework before sending me your questions. Basic stuff has all been addressed elsewhere, either on my site or someone else’s, and certainly it’s all covered in books and classes. The more questions like this I get, the less time I have to answer the juicy ones.
Just a hint, Stephanie R.Labels: ba gua, Feng Shui Q+A, prosperity
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9/29/2008 12:06:00 PM
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September 25, 2008
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Will packing up to move disrupt my chi? |
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Q: I am moving soon and I am concerned that packing may disturb my chi. Any advice you could give me about the ideal order of packing things or which items should be moved in first would be appreciated.
A: In my opinion, worrying about how your packing process or method or sequence might "disturb your chi" is way overthinking things, and implies a reluctance to shake things up that you might want to reconsider. Moving is a big deal, it should be a disruption and upheaval. Otherwise, why bother? If the move is not by your choice, then I suggest you see it as the universe giving you a solid nudge in a new direction and accept that as a good thing.
You can't grow and prosper without change, and we have a choice to embrace that or fight it. The fact that you asked me this question implies that you see the natural stress and mess of moving as something you have to guard against. Why not embrace it as part of the process of getting from where you are to where you are going? Have you considered that maybe your chi could use a good shake up?
I do recommend, if possible, that you declutter during the packing process, so you don't take unnecessary stuff with you. Other than that, just box the stuff up and move it.
Enjoy your new home!
Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it will be several days (often longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: Feng Shui Q+A, moving
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9/25/2008 03:34:00 PM
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Love, job not going well after move |
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Q: Dear Stephanie, I am a firm believer in Feng Shui and have read almost all of your books and have applied many of the principles you suggest. Thank you for being such a wonderful person.
(You’re welcome!)
I recently moved to London from Athens, Greece. Back home, I was living with my parents and I had made all necessary adjustments to my room to activate my love life, career and helpful people section. I met someone special who lives in London, and after a year of a long distance relationship, I moved to London to be with him. I lived with him for a few months, but since moving here things have not gone well. I have an unsatisfying temporary job, and my relationship hcollapsed a few weeks ago. I am absolutely heartbroken at this, and have moved in with my sister (who also lives London), but her space is tiny, and there is nowhere here that I can call “mine” in order to apply feng shui to my situation.
I strongly believe in feng shui and I know that once I have my own space again, things will start to improve in all aspects of my life as I will be able to apply the feng shui principles again. However, at this point, I am unable to practice feng shui.
I would really appreciate it if you could advise me what I can do in terms of feng shui to start coping with my break up and generally getting my life back on track. I am looking for a permanent job but I know I have to be patient with that. Dare I hope to get back together with the man I love?
A: I’m glad to hear that feng shui helped you meet someone appealing, and truly sorry to hear that the move to London is not working out as you had hoped. Any big move like that takes courage.
As for rebuilding something with the man you love, well, I’m a huge fan of hope, but I’m not much in favor of restricting the goal of relationship happiness to getting back together with an ex. I talk about that in more detail here.
As I mentioned in another post here, when you are in temporary borrowed quarters feng shui really isn’t available. I do encourage your intention to find a place of your own so you can apply feng shui again, but in the meantime the law of attraction/art of allowing is more useful.
It’s possible that, on your ex’s part, a long-distance relationship was enticing in ways that a day-to-day involvement was not. It’s also possible, since neither work, love, or housing has worked out well for you so far, that London is simply not supportive of your good fortune, as much as you may feel excited and happy to be there.
As you probably know if you’ve been reading my stuff for a while, I’m a follower of western astrology, and have consulted with astrological advisors on most of the key turning points in my adult life. That includes: moving to Hawaii from New York City; picking a good date and time to get married (which led to a magical sunrise ceremony when we were advised to tie the knot at 5:48 am!); and choosing an auspicious day and time to incorporate the internet marketing side of our business.
We also consulted with a “relocation” astrologer when we felt the time had come to leave Maui, so we would be sure to move to a location where we could thrive and be happy. As it turned out, the expert we consulted advised that simply moving from Maui to the Big Island would create enough significant changes in our ‘relocated” charts to be worth doing. Plus, we’d get to stay in Hawaii, which we love. So here we are in Hilo now, and so far so good.
The reason I bring all this up is that it may be that London is simply not a good place for you to find career or romantic happiness. Or perhaps you are simply going through an astrological “rough patch” (which does happen) and things will turn around for you in that location within a few months or so. Good advice does not come cheap (except right here, of course!), but if you can scrape together the funds I highly recommend a consultation with relocation expert Julian Lee. You can contact him (and learn more about his services) here.Labels: astrology, Feng Shui Q+A, relationships
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9/25/2008 03:20:00 PM
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September 24, 2008
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Chi flowing out back window |
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Q (part 1): I am in a very difficult financial situation due to my job. After 6 years, I was put from a full time basis into a part time position due to company cutbacks. I've been looking for a new job, but nothing comes up. Bills are mounting up and I am getting desperate. I desperately need to do something.
A: Excuse me for interrupting (question continues below) but I have to jump in here and say that based on your use of the word “desperate” twice in a three word span I suspect you have fallen into the habit of focusing on what you do not want to the point that it is interfering with your ability to attract better circumstances. I’m sorry you are having such a hard time financially, but focusing on how scary things are won’t do you any good at all. Really. I discuss why anxiety is the worst possible response to bad news in past newsletters both in the Q+A section here and in the featured articles here and here.
Whenever anyone writes to me that they are “feeling desperate” I point them here to learn why focusing on how awful things are will make it very difficult to experience significant benefits from feng shui. Changes you make to your home are not effective until you get your own attitude and emotions aligned in a positive direction. The better you get at not letting the scary stuff freak you out (not easy, I know; I still trip myself up sometimes, too), the better off you will be and the faster improvements will come to you.
Q (part 2): I think maybe part of the problem is in my home. When you come in, you can see the other side of the house where there is a big window overlooking the city. Somebody told me that being able to see all the way through when you came into the house was not good. Is this true? If so, what can I do to solve the problem? (A friend mentioned using a crystal ball, but I don’t know where to get one.)
A: Yes, if you can see straight through from the front door to and through a door or window on the far side of the house, that’s a problem, because chi goes where your attention goes. So if you step in the front door and your attention (sight line) goes through the house and out that window, then chi coming into the house will flow through and out, too, without circulating to nourish the home.
The remedy for almost any situation involving an straight-line flow of chi is to hang a faceted crystal ball at the mid-point of the area involved. In this case, that would be halfway between your front door and the picture window on the other side of the house. The midpoint position is ideal, but if that is not possible for some reason, you could hang the crystal inside the picture window. It will be less effective there, but should still help.
Faceted crystal balls are available from just about any feng shui retailer. Get the largest one you can afford. A fancy cord like this is not required, but I think it's rather nice:
 (We're having some trouble with the product links from our site today, so until we get those fixed you'll have to Google "feng shui crystal"; when our links are working again I'll come back and hyperlink this photo).
Don’t forget to give your Career, Fame, and Helpful Friends areas some attention. Those are the most important guas for anyone looking for a new job.
Hope you find a wonderful full-time position soon, Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it will be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: chi flow, crystals, doors, Feng Shui Q+A
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9/24/2008 09:54:00 AM
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Q: Is there a right or wrong bagua area for the television set?
A: No. If you truly want to be fussy about it you can consider the television to be an electronic device (fire chi) and think about it in terms of the ba gua that way, but I wouldn’t bother. More important is to realize that TVs tend to become the focal point of whatever space they are in, and to drive your furniture layout, both of which affect chi flow.
The worst place for the TV is in the bedroom, especially if you watch a lot of news; the bedroom should be a place for rest and rejuvenation and the visual stimulation (not to mention all that bad news coverage) of the TV is not conducive to a good night’s sleep.
Remember, feng shui is not just about the ba gua. The ba gua is important, but it is not the only factor.Labels: ba gua, bedroom, Feng Shui Q+A
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9/24/2008 09:48:00 AM
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Q: Is it true that the bed in the master bedroom should not be placed above the kitchen oven/stove? That would be the "power" position in my bedroom & I'd like to move it to that spot. But I've read that it's not good for the heart for the bed to be above the stove. Placing the bed against the other available wall would require that you walk all the way around the bed to get to the master bathroom.
A: Yes, it is considered potentially harmful to sleep in a bed that is directly above the stove.
The stove is a very active (yang) energy. A bed is for sleeping, which is a very yin state of inactivity. When the bed is above the stove you may find that you do not sleep well or that you feel tired and irritable much of the time. It could also indicate heart or blood pressure problems (the stove is a strong fire element, and fire is associated with the heart) for anyone sleeping in that bed. However, that's just an indication, not a guarantee of problems.
Whether that’s of sufficient concern that you are willing to move your bed to a position where you will have to walk a few extra feet to get to the bathroom is up to you.Labels: bedroom, Feng Shui Q+A, Kitchens
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9/24/2008 09:41:00 AM
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Stair and bathroom location |
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Q: I live in a 3-level townhouse. The main living area is on the middle level. Two of the three bathrooms are located in the center of the house (on the bottom & top floors). In addition, the front door & two flights of stairs are located on the left side of the house. I have heard that crystal-like balls & upward growing plants can offset the negative effects of wealth & energy "going down the drain" & "flying out the door," so I've tried them. The bathrooms have no windows so I have artificial plants in them. I also keep the drains closed & toilet lids down. Neither the balls or plants seem to be helping to make a difference. Do you feel that these are the most effective cures for these situations?
A: There are two separate issues here: the stairs and the bathrooms.
First, this idea that wealth “flies out the door” if the stairs are on the left side of the house is a bit of an exaggeration. It is only an issue in very specific situations: where the bottom of the stairs are directly in line with and very close to the front door. This may not be the case in your home, although it does more frequently show up in townhouses than in other typical home layouts.
The key factor is to look at how much distance there is between the door and the bottom of the stairs, and whether the stairs are pointed directly at the door. If there’s more than 6 feet or so (approximately one body-height in distance), it’s not considered a major problem.
If you do have this layout and wish to correct it, a faceted crystal ball hung half-way between the bottom of the stairs and door itself is the most common remedy. Perhaps your crystal is not in the best position, or is not faceted. It’s very important to use a faceted crystal, which refracts light (and therefore chi), breaking up a one-directional flow of chi and scattering it in many directions. A round crystal will not accomplish this.
However, a crystal chandelier or similar light fixture in the foyer area can substitute for the faceted crystal and interrupt the flow of chi from the stairs to the door. It is sometimes also possible to place a basket at the foot of the stairs to “catch” chi before it flows out the door, but I don’t recommend this if your stairs are narrow or the general area is small.
Bathrooms in the center of the structure are thought to have a draining effect on the overall chi of the home, although they do not specifically target your wealth. Plants are often recommended for any area with excessive water chi, and certainly living plants are the best option but other “wood-type” remedies, such as silk plants, can be used.
The problem is that the center of the ba gua is associated with the earth element, and plants and trees break up earth. Even all-purpose remedies such as using plants to balance excessive water chi should be evaluated in terms of the elements associated with that area of the ba gua. I would recommend using more “earth-type” remedies in a bathroom in the center of the home, and a full-length mirror on the outside of the door.
Hope this helps, Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: ba gua, crystals, Feng Shui Q+A, plants, stairs
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9/24/2008 09:28:00 AM
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September 17, 2008
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Is my Love area missing? |
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Q: Last month I moved into a new apartment in an old 1886 brick/brownstone building. It is a 290 SF 1 bedroom with no living room on the top floor with decent views out to rooftops and trees. It’s very quiet, too!
Once I moved in, I realized that the ‘L’ shape of the apartment left out the whole LOVE corner!?! Is this possible? I have also been experiencing troubles in that part of my life lately, so I am looking for some help to understand my current physical location and any ways to counteract the ‘missing’ Love corner.
Also, my bathroom is up one 8” step from the rest of the apartment. Is this inauspicious, especially in my wealth corner? A: It looks to me as though what you’ve got is a large extension on the left side of your apartment in the wealth area and also a little bit of “fame.” 
This is a good thing, although it’s not so great that the space is occupied by the bathroom. However, the fact that the bathroom is a step up and “outside” the main ba gua lessens its impact.
The most important area for romantic influence is the Relationship area of your bedroom. And lucky you: not only is your bed in that area of the room according to the doorway ba gua, it’s also in the SW area of the room that’s in the SW sector of your apartment. That’s a triple romance whammy when you take the compass directions into account.
I realize the space is small, but is there any chance you could turn the bed so the head of the bed is against the West wall? You’ll still be in a good position in the room, but might be able to move it so one side isn’t jammed up against the wall as it is now. When the bed is tight in a corner like that, a good relationship becomes more difficult because one person will feel disempowered. If you can arrange it so there’s enough room for someone to (theoretically) get out of bed on either side (even if one side is a tight squeeze) that would be much better.
You are missing a bit of the Relationship area of your kitchen, where the window to your fire escape cuts off the corner of the room. That would be a good place for a romance cure of some kind, perhaps something that can hang in the window or sit on the windowsill.
Hope this helps you understand the home layout better,
Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer. Labels: ba gua, bedroom, Feng Shui Q+A, relationships
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9/17/2008 10:49:00 AM
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September 16, 2008
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Up-and-Down Financial and Career Experiences |
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Q: We bought a raised ranch a couple years ago and our finances are so up and down. Mainly due to my husband always changing jobs. My career is also very up and down in terms of income. I work out of my home in the insurance and mortgage industries, and am also now a new real estate agent/Realtor. But I think a lot has to do with our front door, which is just a few feet from the stairs. The entry is a very small area from which you go up or down. I read somewhere to put a rock on the bottom step going up. I had a small one there and just changed it to a bigger one. Does that help or did I read that wrong?
A: From a feng shui perspective an entry like this (small foyer with stairs leading both up and down) this can indicate increased "ups and downs" in life but is more closely associated with a lack of focus. The problem is that when you enter the house, you are immediately confronted with a "which way do I go" decision. There’s no clear energy path when you step inside the home. This seems to be reflected in the job changes your husband is going through, and your own multi-faceted career.
To some extent, you may be able to lessen this with your décor: use lighting and focal points to influence where your attention goes from the foyer. Brighter lighting, eye-catching imagery, motion (such as a mobile), and sound (a windchime at the top of the stairs) are all possible ways to achieve this.
Those sorts of remedies are usually best placed at the top of the stairs that lead to the upper level, to draw your attention (and therefore chi) in an upward direction from the entry. I say "usually" because if the only rooms on the upper level are the bedrooms and bath(s), then I'd recommend instead that you place your attention-grabbing/chi-directing cures toward the more "yang" spaces of the living room and kitchen instead.
Since you describe the entry area as small, I would be wary of adding anything to that space that will make it feel more cramped, such as a rock at the bottom step. This will add visual clutter and the potential for stubbed toes to your foyer, and won’t do much to define a path of movement one way or the other. Just because a solution is recommended in a book (and that includes any of my books), that doesn’t mean it’s the best remedy for your particular space. Every situation has unique aspects which need to be considered.
I also caution against being quick to see things as a problem. If working in the insurance, mortgage, and real estate fields feels overwhelming or distracting to you, that’s one thing. But if you like the variety don’t feel you have to "fix" it. In my view, multiple sources of income are always a good thing!
Keep in mind, too, that there may be other feng shui factors in your home that are influencing your career and financial experiences. The front door is an important feature of any space, but it is certainly not the only factor.
Hope this helps bring some clarity and focus to how you see your space, Stephanie R.Labels: doors, Feng Shui Q+A, stairs
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9/16/2008 11:08:00 AM
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Q: Do you have any advice for me and my husband in regards to finances? We do not work well together on money tasks and the bills pile up and no one wants to deal with any of it because it is such a negative experience.
A: My best guess, based on very limited info, is that some prosperity consciousness study/training is more in order for you at this point than specific feng shui strategies. Without that (which will help you transform your expectations and attitude towards financial chores) any feng shui tactics you might use are not likely to be effective.
If "prosperity consciousness" is a new concept to you, AllAboutProsperity.com is a useful place to start. Learning to let go of those negative expectations will certainly help.
Marital discord about financial matters -- lack of defined responsibility for who does what, conflicting priorities, different spending/saving habits, etc. -- is extremely common. Money stuff pushes all of our buttons better than just about anything else. I suspect you might get more help from someone like Suze Orman, who addresses such issues in her books and columns, than by looking to feng shui for an answer.
I will say that if you've noticed the discord only happens when you discuss finances in a certain area of the home (in the dining room, for example), and that you also bicker about other issues in that space, then there may be feng shui factors involved. You should look for and correct or avoid any sources of sha chi in that room and see if you can talk about your finances more amicably in another area of the home.
If finances in general are an issue--in a broader sense than just dealing with personal/family finance tasks--then certainly you can look around for feng shui factors. But that's far too broad a topic to be addressed here.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but feng shui is only one of many "life tools" available to us: don't reach for the hammer when what you need is a screwdriver.
Hope this helps in some way, Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: Feng Shui Q+A, money, prosperity
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9/16/2008 11:08:00 AM
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September 15, 2008
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Feeling Invisible |
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Q: I am single and ready for a relationship, but I am not getting much attention from the opposite sex at all. It seems like I am invisible, even though I have placed images of a couple embracing and of a couple being married in my Relationship power spots. What else can I do to jazz up my love life?
A: What most interests me in your question is the phrase, “it seems I am invisible.” The words any client uses to describe their situation are important, so that’s the kind of aha clue that feng shui practitioners listen for. I expect there’s something going on in your house that echoes invisibility in some way.
My first guess would be that it has something to do with mirrors. What do (or don’t) the mirrors in your home reflect, and are they positioned in places where the lighting is good and you can get a good look at yourself? If you can’t see yourself clearly, how can you expect others to notice you? For example, if the only large mirror in your space is a full-length one on the inside of a closet door that is usually kept closed (which I’ve seen in a client’s home), that may be contributing to your “invisibility.”
Do you have a good-sized mirror near your front door, so you take a look at yourself before venturing out into the world? If you don’t, I recommend one: it will help with your visibility, especially if you pause for a moment to check your reflection before you venture out every day.
As for “jazzing up” your love life, that's an interesting phrase, too. What does that mean to you? For example, if I take it literally I would suggest including a picture of a couple having a grand time at a jazz club among your relationship “cures.”
I suspect you may also have missed an important imagery step, which is to cut out your face from a snapshot, and paste it over the face of the woman in the couple photographs you already have. You want those loving moments to be about you, not about some stranger from a magazine.
Wishing you admiring glances from someone special soon, Stephanie R.Labels: Feng Shui Q+A, mirrors, relationships
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9/15/2008 10:13:00 AM
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Q: My restaurant business is in a corner location where the main door is kitty-corner to the building. The building is 120 years old, and either street could be the front of the building. Not now or historically has one side taken the dominant position. I think the doorway is a missing piece, but don’t know how the ba gua goes.
A: I'm can’t tell from the description you sent whether the corner entry is inset or angled. I addressed angled doorways in a past newsletter Q+A here (scroll down to find the Q+A section on that page.) Here are some general comments about corner locations that you may find helpful.
Corner locations -- especially when the door itself cuts across the corner -- are generally auspicious for retail establishments (including restaurants). Rather than limiting incoming “chi” to one street or the other, you can potentially benefit from both: 
However, one-way streets can either drive chi toward, or pull it away from, your building:

So the degree of benefit you gain from the location has a lot to do with traffic flow, both on the street and foot traffic on sidewalks. Although modern feng shui defines the ba gua according to the location of the doorway, there are other factors involved in determining “front” and “back” of a space. If one street is a busy thoroughfare, and the other would be most accurately described as a side street, then probably the side of the building on the busier street is the front. You might also consider, if you get a lot of foot traffic, which direction those patrons come in from. Or where your parking lot is located. And which side of the building has more or larger windows. And where your signage is placed.
Use of the interior space can also affect which side of the building might be considered the “front.” You can judge this by where your attention goes when you step inside, and which way your customers naturally turn (or not) when they step through your door.
Where are the kitchen and bathrooms located? Often this will “feel” like the “back of the house,” although they could be “off to the side.” Which phrase would you use to describe them? That should tell you something.
I suspect that if you give yourself permission to define “front” and “back” yourself -- without worrying about how the space may have been used in the past -- you’ll intuitively know which way is the better match for your restaurant.
Keep in mind, as well, that when an entry is recessed the bottom edge of the ba gua is aligned with the doorway, not with the main wall on that side of the building. There's no missing area at the doorway. The "extra" space is just that: extra.  If business is good, then most likely your doorway position is not a problem and I wouldn’t worry about it.
Hope this helps makes some sense of your space, Stephanie R. Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be a week (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.
Labels: ba gua, doors, Feng Shui Q+A
posted by Stephanie R. #
9/15/2008 09:22:00 AM
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September 11, 2008
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Color Choice and the Five Elements |
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Q: We live in a tri-level home. The exterior of our house is painted white, with dark charcoal grey trim, white gutters, and a red distressed brick front covering the garage. What would be the "best" color to paint the front door?? Right now it is the charcoal grey color, same as the trim. Also is it okay to leave the house white and trim charcoal grey?
A: In my opinion, the “best” color is the one you like the best and will be happiest with. It’s that simple. There is no point in choosing a color scheme based on feng shui if you won’t like the results. As you poke around feng shui sites and books, you’re likely to find a lot of info about color choices. And they are probably not going to agree. For example, red is a lucky "power" color in feng shui, so some people say painting your front door red will bring good luck.
Others – usually compass method practitioners – caution that red for the front door is only good if the door faces a direction that is supported by the Fire element. Flying Stars practitioners will base their recommendation on the "star" (numerological) influences for that sector. And others will first want to compute your Chinese Astrology “Four Pillars” to see what your own personal best/worst elements are.
I don’t believe any of this is of much use to you if the person you’ve consulted comes up with a color recommendation that you will hate. I understand you want to make good choices for your home, but I don’t see it as my role to make those choices for you. And I don’t believe in making decisions based on generic guidelines, either.
Although I rarely pay much attention to the compass directions for interior spaces, I do often take them into consideration for the exterior. So, for example, if my front door faced north, I would include black and dark blue among my color options because they represent the water element associated with north, and because those are both colors I could happily live with. In theory, a charcoal grey is also okay in the north, but it doesn’t appeal to me so I would not choose it. But if no north-appropriate colors would work without repainting the entire house, I’d be flexible and choose something else instead. I probably will never have a yellow house or a red front door. But that’s because I am not fond of either yellow or red, not because I’m taking a stand one way or the other on the “is it good feng shui” question.
The best advice I can give you is to study the five element cycles. Then, should you feel the colors you like are perhaps not the most feng-shui-correct option, you can either bolster or tame a particular influence with the materials and colors you choose for other exterior features.
The colors of your home as they are now are primary metal and earth colors (that distressed brick is an "earth" influence), with perhaps some water as well, depending on how dark that charcoal grey is. It's nice (but not essential) to have each of the five elements represented in some way. Whether some wood or fire-type accents would be beneficial in your case depends on whether those are represented in or missing from your yard. There's a good chance trees and exterior lighting are representing those elements for you already.
Hope that sheds some light on the issue, Stephanie R.
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be a week (or longer) before I reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: colors, doors, Feng Shui Q+A
posted by Stephanie R. #
9/11/2008 03:26:00 PM
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September 09, 2008
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Alternative to Water Fountain |
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Q: I have a small water fountain in my living room, placed by my front door. Unfortunately I have a dog that bumps into it whenever she looks out the living room window. Could you please suggest another option to activate that area?
A: A "water type cure" doesn't have to be a fountain. It can be a photograph or painting of a fountain or a waterfall or of the ocean or a stream or river. It can be accessories in "water" colors like deep blues and blacks, and undulating "watery" lines, shapes. The options are unlimited.
Choose something that makes you smile and feel happier when you see it, and that it a size/shape/type appropriate to the space you have available for it.
StephanieLabels: elements, Feng Shui Q+A
posted by Stephanie R. #
9/09/2008 12:31:00 PM
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Q: Hi Stephanie, Thanks for the advice you gave me when I was considering buying a floating home recently. I’m now in it!
I have another question, this time about desk position. I know the command position, with a view of the door, is recommended. The way I have my desk set up gives me an almost 180-degree view of the river. Rather than being a distraction, I find this view so inspiring. But my back is to the door. If I face the door, I'll have to sit with my back to the view, and I can't quite bring myself to do that.
Would placing a mirror to give me a view of the door be sufficient so I could still keep my river views? I also thought about hanging a bell on the office door, which is normally closed, which would give me warning should it open. What would you do in these circumstances?
A: Both those solutions (mirror and bell) are entirely appropriate. Turning your back on a beautiful and inspiring view is not good feng shui, and under the circumstances I would certainly choose to face the wonderful river view.
This seems like a good opportunity to clarify that the “command position” doesn’t just mean that you sit facing the door, although that's a key point. A good command position also places you where you have a solid wall at your back for support, and where you are not exposed to any sha chi.
Having your back to a wall of windows – especially with a very expansive view – puts you in a vulnerable a position, just as having your back to the door does. And if you do any kind of work on a computer, the glare will be a significant problem and qualify as a “sha chi” influence because of the strain it will put on your eyes.
That doesn’t add up to a good command position.
Enjoy your view! Stephanie
Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: command position, Feng Shui Q+A
posted by Stephanie R. #
9/09/2008 12:12:00 PM
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Q: My roommate’s bedroom is in the love and relationship corner of my house. In addition, she has a very negative attitude towards relationships and is very outspoken on the matter. Aside from enhancing the relationship areas of other rooms, is there anything I can do to compensate for the negative energy and loss of control over that portion of my house?
A: I was going to say “no -- that part of the house is her space, so it’s not yours to control. Let it go and do what you can to ignore her.”
Then I had the idea that you could take a floorplan for your house/apartment, and pretty it up with a bunch of cute, playful “love-type” stickers – hearts, cupids, roses, kissy lips, and stuff like that. Put these stickers all over the part of the floorplan that represents your roommate’s space. Write “love is wonderful” and “love = happiness” or stuff like that in the margins and over the rest of the floor plan. Use a pink or red glitter pen if you can find one, and draw some more hearts while you’re at it. Make this silly and have fun!
Keep your stickered floorplan someplace in the relationship corner of your bedroom (out of sight is fine). Imagine that all this goofball happiness is counteracting your roommate’s bad love vibe. Next time her doom-and-gloom attitude towards romance grates on you, retreat to your room, pull out your “love plan” and have a secret chuckle that she’s gonna be happy in spite of herself. Visualize that she meets someone wonderful, falls madly in love, and moves out, making space for a much better house-partner for you. Be so happy for both of you!
In the meantime, let her be as miserable as she wants to be but claim your right not to have to listen to her bitch and moan about how awful relationships/men/women/whatever are. There’s no rule that says you have to participate in her negative vibe by listening to it.
Wishing you only good love – and roommate – experiences, Stephanie R.Labels: Feng Shui Q+A, relationships
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9/09/2008 12:03:00 PM
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Door Covering the Health Corner |
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Q: The door to my room when opened covers the east corner of my room. I have a chronic illness and I believe that is my health corner. Do I put something in front of the door or something behind the door that is covering the corner? A: The east corner is associated with health only if you follow the compass methods of feng shui. If you’ve read the Q+A Guidelines and the recommended intro articles about my practice, you should know that I am a Modern/Western style feng-shuista. I rarely use the compass directions for interior spaces, and would define the Health area as the middle of the left side of the room, rather than the east sector. A door opening into or covering part of your “health” (or any other) area can compress the chi in that area somewhat, but I feel that is a minor factor and not likely to contribute in a significant way to your health issues. Far more important is that you sleep and sit (for any prolonged period of time, such as when working at a desk job) in a place that does not expose you to “sha chi.” If you would like to remedy the compressing effect of the door, I would suggest hanging a small mirror on the back of the door (make sure it is hung securely, so it will not fall off). Anything else you might like to use should also be flat (such as a photograph, poster, or collage) so it can be hung on the wall or on the back of the door. Do not place anything behind the door that will further cramp the space or interfere with the door opening to its widest angle. Doors that do not open fully are considered a limiting influence in feng shui. Hope this helps, Stephanie Q+A POLICY The purpose of this Q+A service is to clarify modern feng shui principles and remedies, and to help you make sense of contradictory teachings you’re likely to come across. If you are new to this blog, please read the Q+A Guidelines (see sidebar on left) before sending me a question. Do expect that I will edit your message for clarity and focus, and that it may be several days (or longer) before I post a reply. Keep in mind, too, that you’re getting my personal opinion on the topic. If you ask someone else, you might get a different answer.Labels: doors, Feng Shui Q+A, health
posted by Stephanie R. #
9/09/2008 11:57:00 AM
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